Here’s what you don’t say to singles dating in their 30s. When I was single in my early 30s I was on the receiving end of many reassuring dating cliches from well-meaning friends. Friends and family may have the best of intentions, but they don’t always get how singles…
A few weeks ago I filmed a video with Canna Campbell from Sugarmama.tv. We talked about the similarities between money and dating mindset. If you know me, you’ll know that how I do one thing in life is how I do everything else in life. And since I’m such…
In this video, I talk about dating mindset and explain why ‘I’m too busy to date’ is seriously blocking you from finding your one. We make time for what we value. If you don’t have time to date, it may be time to re-prioritize. This is an example of…
Guest post: Rosie Bella
The beginning of a relationship is so exciting. But around the 6 month mark, real life settles back in. If you and your partner have been dating for a while now, you’re probably wondering whether you should take the relationship a step further. Before you do,…
The early stages of a relationship are fragile. In fact, ‘dating probation’ doesn’t really end till month 6. Up until month 6, both parties are still deciding whether their relationship can go the distance. Recently I worked with a client who never made it past month 3. She had…
How to prepare yourself to go from casual dating to a serious relationship
You can’t control the circumstances that happen around you but you have total control over your actions, your mindset. So often I see women jump into relationships and tell me how disappointed they are when they don’t…
Aside from attracting good men, one of the challenges in dating is moving a casual relationship to a serious one. Going from casual to committed isn’t always so simple. But it comes down to three simple things:
Trust and respect
Trust is one of those things that takes weeks, months, years…
Casual to committed in 7 steps
Understand relationship timelines
Get to know your own attachment style
Understand what you need to feel fulfilled
Date from love, not fear
Get to know his attachment style
Understand what his relationship needs are
Learn to communicate what you need
Aside from meeting eligible…