Attachment style is something I refer to a lot and this week I had the pleasure of chatting with licensed psychologist Diane Strachowski. She has created a love style quiz to help determine someone’s needs and wants in a relationship (it’s often not what you think). Here’s everything you need to know before you take…
Turning 30 is a big milestone but for me and most 30 somethings, it actually wasn’t that bad. Looking back, dating in my late 20s caused the most anxiety. I questioned whether I achieved enough, if I was keeping up with my friends and society’s expectations. But when I actually turned 30, nothing changed. Recently…
I have a few students who don’t like online dating and find it challenging to meet someone in real life. And so when the team at LiveLinks got in touch, I was intrigued. Is the phone a better way to meet people? When I first started dating, the only way I could get hold of…
How to take back your love life when you’re dating in your 30s When I was 28 and still single a guy friend told me something along the lines of this: It’s fine to be single now but if you’re still single by 30, you’re in trouble. At the time I didn’t sweat it. I…
Time to get busy! Showing affection towards your partner could do more than just improve your emotional. It has amazing health benefits. In addition to loving your partner, there are so many health benefits of sex. This is proved by innumerable studies. It protects from health hazards and boosts your health. Solo? No worries. Self-pleasuring…
Most men I speak to tell me they feel awful/guilty/helpless when a woman cries but for the most part they’re ok with it. However, there are situations when crying is NOT tolerated. When it comes to crying there is such thing as crying etiquette. Let’s start with when it’s ok to cry. When crying is…
How to create intimacy in any relationship In the age of Tinder and a plethora of dating apps, meeting new people has never been easier. Creating intimacy however, is a whole other story. I’m not talking about physical intimacy, I’m talking about the kind that makes a guy want to commit. In my new programme…
How to attract love into your life is the most popular question coming into 30everafter so I thought I’d do a whole piece on it. Last time I went to see a psychic she told me that the most frequently asked question she gets is: “How long will it take for me to attract my…
I often talk about how mindset is the secret sauce to attracting a healthy relationship with a good man, the kind you marry. Yet mindset work in relationship seems to be the best kept secret when it comes to love and attraction. Whenever I speak to a single women looking for dating advice, I can…
When singles tell me they keep dating the wrong men I often put it down to two things: They don’t know what they want They don’t know how to ask for what they want Let me explain. Those who fall under category 1 often date and hope for the best. They leave it to timing,…