Aside from attracting good men, one of the challenges in dating is moving a casual relationship to a serious one. Going from casual to committed isn’t always so simple. But it comes down to three simple things: Trust and respect Trust is one of those things that takes weeks, months, years to build and one…
Casual to committed in 7 steps Understand relationship timelines Get to know your own attachment style Understand what you need to feel fulfilled Date from love, not fear Get to know his attachment style Understand what his relationship needs are Learn to communicate what you need Aside from meeting eligible single men, the trickiest bit…
Relationship limbo is like the mullet of haircuts. Neither here nor there. And it’s NOT a good place to be when you just want to know where you stand in a relationship. Many women are afraid to bring up the topic in fear that it’s too soon or that the guy will run away but,…
Attachment style is something I refer to a lot and this week I had the pleasure of chatting with licensed psychologist Diane Strachowski. She has created a love style quiz to help determine someone’s needs and wants in a relationship (it’s often not what you think). Here’s everything you need to know before you take…
Turning 30 is a big milestone but for me and most 30 somethings, it actually wasn’t that bad. Looking back, dating in my late 20s caused the most anxiety. I questioned whether I achieved enough, if I was keeping up with my friends and society’s expectations. But when I actually turned 30, nothing changed. Recently…
I often talk about how mindset is the secret sauce to attracting a healthy relationship with a good man, the kind you marry. Yet mindset work in relationship seems to be the best kept secret when it comes to love and attraction. Whenever I speak to a single women looking for dating advice, I can…
When singles tell me they keep dating the wrong men I often put it down to two things: They don’t know what they want They don’t know how to ask for what they want Let me explain. Those who fall under category 1 often date and hope for the best. They leave it to timing,…
This post is dedicated to those looking to make new friends in your 30s AND to the incredible women I’ve met during my time in Australia. You know who you are. =) As I get older I’m finding it more and more difficult to make new friends in your 30s. It’s tricky when all your…
I’m often asked how someone can find love in your 30s. Even though I’m happily married I will never forget the anxiety that came with being single in your 30s. It can feel like you’re the only single person left. No matter how hard you try, there are no guys you really click with. Everyone…
When you’ve been single for awhile, dating can feel like a chore. If this is something you can relate to you’re probably thinking what’s the point of going on another date that leads nowhere? It’s not that there’s a shortage of good guys, it’s probably that you’re looking for the wrong things in a man….