Over the next couple of days I’m going to send you my 3 Cs to Charm so you can be the woman every guy wants to date -you know the kind of women who can walk into a room, owns it and turns heads – and it has nothing to do with looks.
I’ll show you the qualities that this kind of woman has because it’s important to me that you find that EPIC love story of yours.
How you do one area of life is how you do all the others – if you can attract every guy in the room, imagine what that can do for your other relationships?
My parents divorced when I was 8 so I never had role models of what a healthy relationship should look like. I’d look at friends’ parents and kind of just envied that their parents were still together. You may not know it but early events in your childhood shape your relationships in more ways than you can imagine. In my case, I constantly sought relationships that never stood a chance of survival. I just braced myself for breakups and divorces. I subconsciously looked for unavailable men or I’d sabotage my relationships in one way or another. When I got to my late 20s, early 30s – I dated men who feared commitment.
It was one breakup that led to the turning point in my story.
I was 28 when I met the guy I thought I’d want to marry. t was one of those relationships that felt secure and stable. So you can imagine my surprise when one day, one morning – he told me that he couldn’t see a future with me anymore. We hadn’t been fighting, he’d never express those hesitations to me before – there were no warning signs I could foresee. Everyone else around me was either getting engaged or pregnant – I already felt like I was falling behind. Maybe it was the fear and anxiety that blocked me from seeing the warning signs…regardless, I was absolutely devastated when we broke up.
And in that moment, I felt my life turn upside down, that my future had shifted.
After the shock wore off came this overwhelming fear that it was too late to meet someone. I literally woke up in panic some nights out of fear that I’d have to date again, that all good men were taken and – I was scared of what others might think.
So scared I was of being single, I tried everything you can think of to meet someone new. I tried online dating, saw psychics, read books, asked to be set up, went speed dating. It wasn’t till I went to my first personal development course that I realised finding love was an inside job. And with a new found knowledge, I did hundreds of hours of research on human behaviour and psychology and self development work.
I went back and identified all the triggers and blocks that were holding my love life back and put a roadmap in place to meet the love of my life. Just over a year ago, I met him and in 12 months we got engaged.
To see my love life transform like this has been an incredible journey and it’s what every women deserves. It’s my mission to help you find it.
You don’t have to do it alone:
I’ve met so many beautiful and smart women who are a bit embarrassed to admit they need help – I’ve been there too. But we have experts in every area of our lives don’t we? We have an accountant for our finances, a personal trainer for our fitness – so why not someone for our love life? I’ve heard way too many tell me about how much they want to meet someone special and frankly I really want to do something about it now.
I really want this series to be as interactive as possible – I’ve created a private Facebook group so you can share your feedback or your ‘wins’ with me. I’ll include the link below. Hope to see you there!
In this audio series, you will learn:
Want additional 1:1 support to fast track your love life? Here are a few ways we can work together. xx
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