10 Things Men Wished Women Knew

The 10 Things Guys Wished Women Knew

Written by the guys you’re probably dating right now One of the most searched terms on this site starts with ‘what men think of…’ so I’ll keep this intro short and get straight to the point. Because there are many things men wish you knew and rather than them telling you, they’d just prefer you read the following instead. On Decoding Guy Behaviour…. Women tend to overthink what we are thinking and feeling, not what we are doing. We communicate…

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What Does It Means When You Haven’t Made Things Official Yet

You meet a guy and go out on a couple of great dates. He introduces you to his friends, and he didn’t freak out when he met yours. So when people ask if you two are ‘officially’ dating/ boyfriend and girlfriend, you’re confused. You’re doing all the things that people in relationships would do and yet, you two don’t have a ‘title’ yet. If he hasn’t brought up the ‘what are we’ conversation yet, it can be incredibly frustrating to…

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Why Some Women Always Get Friend Zoned

I’ve written about the friend zone before but the topic is like a bottomless pit, with so many layers to unravel. One of my readers asked me to tell her why she was always getting friend zoned by her guy friends - and it’s such a frequently asked question (yes, friend zone isn’t just for men, women get friend zoned too), I decided to share 3 reasons why some women always get friend zoned. You Have Too Much Masculine Energy…

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This is NOT a Fairytale – Sister Wives Part 1

Hello! I don't typically share a story like the one below but sometimes you get one that is so unbelievable...I feel like everyone should know about it. Just to note - this is not fiction. Not all stories have a happy ending and chain of events (like the ones I'm about to share) really do happen. How it'll end...is still to come. This story is from Sophie's sister, Laura Fear and it was first published on her own blog. I spent…

5 Traits of Likeable PPL

5 Traits of Likeable People

In my 30 something odd years of existence, I’ve met my share of likeable people. You know, the ones who bring a certain energy to the room, the kind of person you want to talk to whether it’s with romantic intentions or not. I’ve been lucky to meet so many of them and they all have these 5 traits in common. They Listen We have two ears and one mouth, which means we should be listening more than speaking. Likeable…

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The 3 Men I Would Trust for Dating Advice

Dating is like navigating a maze that keeps changing its course - it’s unpredictable and filled with situations no one can prepare you for. I love asking men for their opinion when it comes to dating but lately I’ve also come across some really bad dating advice taught by so-called dating coaches who are teaching men and women things like ‘how to get ahead in bed’ or ‘how to make him fall for you’ - I’ve looked into it and…

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Could You Be Chasing Him And Not Even Know It?

Meeting new people is hard enough but what drove my single self crazy was all the guesswork in the early stages of dating...what do I do when I want him to call me? or...how often should I text/call him? In relationships, most men tend to take the lead. So...does this mean we're meant to sit on the sidelines of our own relationships? I asked our friend Rori Raye for some answers. By Rori Raye, author of Have The Relationship You Want What…

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WHEN YOU’RE KNOWN AS THE GIRL HE BROKE UP WITH

It’s a situation everyone dreads, the moment when you bump into an ex’s friends; the same people who used to be in your social circle but are now strangers. I’d been waiting years for me to bump into my ex’s friends but it did’t quite happen for me…not exactly. I was at a networking luncheon when the guy who sat beside me casually mentioned where he worked. When I heard which agency he worked for, I knew he’d know my…

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The Do’s and Don’ts For Using Body Language to Attract Men

For someone who has spent years in the Public Relations industry, I've been very aware of how I carry myself when I meet new people. Subtle actions like crossing your arms say more than words during first impressions - and you only have one shot to make a good first impression. So much of what you say is in your body language, not the words you actually speak. And so when Rori Raye shared her dos and don'ts for using body…