A Special Giveaway – Jord Wood Watches

I don't do this often but every once in awhile I'll come across a great find to share with you. I've been searching for a watch for months now and while I love rose gold, I couldn't find anything that looked good with most of my clothes. My friends at Jord introduced me to their wooden watches last month and I'm in love. Pictures may not do it justice but I love that their designs are quite unisex and neutral in colour.…

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When You’ve Lost Yourself In a Relationship

I wrote this for a beautiful soul who’s just come out of a relationship. I’m independent and never thought I’d ever rely on a man…until I came out of a 2+ year relationship and realised how dependent I actually was. When you fall into a relationship, two lives have a sneaky way of merging into one - homes, friends, schedules, families. You don’t realise how intertwined your lives are until you try to separate them in the aftermath. So how…

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12 Qualities of My Girlfriend That Make Me Want to Be Her Husband

Guest Contributor: Sebastian Harris She is amazing. I know, the word amazing is used quite recklessly nowadays, but I honestly can’t think of any other word to describe my girlfriend. Oh wait, I can think of loving, supportive and wonderful.  I met my girlfriend at a time when I didn’t intend to end up in a relationship. In fact, I promised myself to stay away from anything too serious. I wanted to have fun and any form of commitment seemed…

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What to Do the Next Time He Cancels Your Date…Again

If you hate confrontation or find it difficult to express how you feel when a guy cancels a date on you again, read on. Because this is a conversation that comes up all the time with the women I chat to. And I really want to address this because often we know exactly what we want and yet, we are hesitant to bring it up for fear that we may come off too pushy, too bitchy, too needy….etc. This conversation…

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The 10 Things Guys Wished Women Knew

Written by the guys you’re probably dating right now One of the most searched terms on this site starts with ‘what men think of…’ so I’ll keep this intro short and get straight to the point. Because there are many things men wish you knew and rather than them telling you, they’d just prefer you read the following instead. On Decoding Guy Behaviour…. Women tend to overthink what we are thinking and feeling, not what we are doing. We communicate…

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What Does It Means When You Haven’t Made Things Official Yet

You meet a guy and go out on a couple of great dates. He introduces you to his friends, and he didn’t freak out when he met yours. So when people ask if you two are ‘officially’ dating/ boyfriend and girlfriend, you’re confused. You’re doing all the things that people in relationships would do and yet, you two don’t have a ‘title’ yet. If he hasn’t brought up the ‘what are we’ conversation yet, it can be incredibly frustrating to…

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Why Some Women Always Get Friend Zoned

I’ve written about the friend zone before but the topic is like a bottomless pit, with so many layers to unravel. One of my readers asked me to tell her why she was always getting friend zoned by her guy friends - and it’s such a frequently asked question (yes, friend zone isn’t just for men, women get friend zoned too), I decided to share 3 reasons why some women always get friend zoned. You Have Too Much Masculine Energy…

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