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What to Do the Next Time He Cancels Your Date…Again

If you hate confrontation or find it difficult to express how you feel when a guy cancels a date on you again, read on. Because this is a conversation that comes up all the time with the women I chat to. And I really want to address this because often we know exactly what we want and yet, we are hesitant to bring it up for fear that we may come off too pushy, too bitchy, too needy….etc. This conversation…

10 Things Men Wished Women Knew

The 10 Things Guys Wished Women Knew

Written by the guys you’re probably dating right now One of the most searched terms on this site starts with ‘what men think of…’ so I’ll keep this intro short and get straight to the point. Because there are many things men wish you knew and rather than them telling you, they’d just prefer you read the following instead. On Decoding Guy Behaviour…. Women tend to overthink what we are thinking and feeling, not what we are doing. We communicate…

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What Does It Means When You Haven’t Made Things Official Yet

You meet a guy and go out on a couple of great dates. He introduces you to his friends, and he didn’t freak out when he met yours. So when people ask if you two are ‘officially’ dating/ boyfriend and girlfriend, you’re confused. You’re doing all the things that people in relationships would do and yet, you two don’t have a ‘title’ yet. If he hasn’t brought up the ‘what are we’ conversation yet, it can be incredibly frustrating to…

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Why Some Women Always Get Friend Zoned

I’ve written about the friend zone before but the topic is like a bottomless pit, with so many layers to unravel. One of my readers asked me to tell her why she was always getting friend zoned by her guy friends - and it’s such a frequently asked question (yes, friend zone isn’t just for men, women get friend zoned too), I decided to share 3 reasons why some women always get friend zoned. You Have Too Much Masculine Energy…

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This is NOT a Fairytale – Sister Wives Part 1

Hello! I don't typically share a story like the one below but sometimes you get one that is so unbelievable...I feel like everyone should know about it. Just to note - this is not fiction. Not all stories have a happy ending and chain of events (like the ones I'm about to share) really do happen. How it'll end...is still to come. This story is from Sophie's sister, Laura Fear and it was first published on her own blog. I spent…

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5 Traits of Likeable People

In my 30 something odd years of existence, I’ve met my share of likeable people. You know, the ones who bring a certain energy to the room, the kind of person you want to talk to whether it’s with romantic intentions or not. I’ve been lucky to meet so many of them and they all have these 5 traits in common. They Listen We have two ears and one mouth, which means we should be listening more than speaking. Likeable…

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The 3 Men I Would Trust for Dating Advice

Dating is like navigating a maze that keeps changing its course - it’s unpredictable and filled with situations no one can prepare you for. I love asking men for their opinion when it comes to dating but lately I’ve also come across some really bad dating advice taught by so-called dating coaches who are teaching men and women things like ‘how to get ahead in bed’ or ‘how to make him fall for you’ - I’ve looked into it and…

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Could You Be Chasing Him And Not Even Know It?

Meeting new people is hard enough but what drove my single self crazy was all the guesswork in the early stages of dating...what do I do when I want him to call me? or...how often should I text/call him? In relationships, most men tend to take the lead. So...does this mean we're meant to sit on the sidelines of our own relationships? I asked our friend Rori Raye for some answers. By Rori Raye, author of Have The Relationship You Want What…